I prefer the word "gentle" than be called "smart" 'cause when I flatter a women heart I just do it for the reason to acknowledge the fact that she is more than what our eyes can see and she deserves to be treated as the woman she is and not for what society wants her to be that would be a super woman or a pretty doll face, so if in her daily life she always get bombarded with this pointers, at least once in a million, a man can appreciate her for who she really is without the pressure of being the perfect woman every time, just the fact that she is beautiful and perfect just the way she is nothing more, nothing else, just the truth.